Navigating the Adoption Process: Why Your Relationship Matter
Why Investing in your Relationship Matters in the Adoption Process
If you’re anything like me, some days parenting feels a bit like juggling flaming spatulas while refereeing a professional wrestling match in your living room. One kid melts down if you break the banana in half, another is lobbying for a pet goat, and (surprise!) someone just dumped a bucket of LEGOs down the heating vent. You long for a little harmony, a smidgeon of patience, maybe…a nap? (Me too.)
But let’s talk about one thing that often gets buried under the mountains of mismatched socks and permission slips: your relationship. You know, the thing you once watered with date nights and spontaneous kitchen slow dancing before the bedtime routine started hijacking your evenings. If your relationship feels like it’s been on the back burner (crusty casserole, anyone?) I promise, you’re not alone. And if you’re navigating the adoption process, this reminder could be a helpful tip for your success.
The Real Family Eats—and Feels
I recently listened to the “Dana” episode of The Real Family Eats (and yes, I made the infamous Tuna Noodle “Stinkle”—10/10 recommend for picky eaters and for hiding an actual vegetable or three). But what struck me most wasn’t the recipe. It was Dana’s honesty about how profoundly parenting stretched (okay, sometimes steamrolled) her marriage and her sense of self.
Dana shared how, as a mom of four, two biological, two adopted, her family “boat” got rocked, big time. She described the meltdowns, the sibling “Lego Massacre,” and the pure exhaustion of keeping everyone fed and somewhat functional, all while feeling isolated and overwhelmed. Sounding familiar? (Current status: nodding vigorously.)
But here’s the thing: in the midst of all the chaos, Dana found what made the biggest difference wasn’t just finding the perfect consequence or managing the next meltdown … it was investing in connection: for herself, for her kids, and for her relationship.
Why Relationship Wellness is Parent Wellness
Let’s be real, parenting is a marathon, not a sprint (Dana literally wrote the book on this!). You need reserves: love, laughter, teamwork, perspective and, yes, practical support for when someone’s crying (even if it’s you). When your relationship is nourished, everything else flows more smoothly -, even when life gets delightfully (or disastrously) messy.
But wait … you’re not supposed to figure this all out on your own! Hold onto your dishtowels because this is exactly where Couples Therapy and especially Couples Therapy & Parenting Intensives at Embrace Renewal Therapy & Wellness Collective come into play.
What is a Couples Therapy Intensive, and Why Should Parents Care?
Think of it as a casserole for your relationship: all the good stuff, layered, baked, and ready before everything boils over. An Intensive is more than a “talk-it-out” session. It’s an immersive, targeted reset for couples who are feeling the strain of parenting, lost in the shuffle, or just plain stuck.
These focused sessions are designed for parents like you who love their kids but are craving the tools and space to reconnect, communicate, and co-parent together (without needing to fight over who’s emptying the dishwasher again.) You’ll step away from the noise and into a guided tune-up - the kind Dana described as life-changing when she finally reached out for support.
If you’re ready to:
Move from surviving to thriving (yes, even during homework hour)
Learn practical, research-based strategies for connection. No eye rolls, just real talk
Build a “village” for your relationship, because yes, it really does take one
…then a Couples Therapy Intensive might be exactly the support your family needs.
Let’s Pour Into What Matters Most
If you’re worn out, feeling alone in the struggle, or just missing your partner (remember when you used to laugh together?), give yourself, and your relationship, the credit it deserves. Reaching out isn’t admitting defeat; it’s choosing to grow, together.
Your kids watch what you model. When they see you prioritizing connection, resilience, and repair, they get to grow up in a home that’s built for love, not just survival.
If this speaks to your parent-heart, come join us for a Couples Therapy Intensive (or check out our other parent-friendly services: workshops, individual therapy, newborn workshops, and more). We promise, judgment-free, real help and maybe even a recipe or two.
Your relationship (and your casserole) deserve a second helping. Don’t wait for perfect; let’s get through imperfect, together.
Ready to invest in your relationship wellness? Book a Couples Therapy Intensive at Embrace Renewal Therapy & Wellness Collective today.
And don’t forget to check out the full episode of “The Real Family Eats: Dana” for more relatable stories, parent tips, and culinary inspiration because you can nourish your family and your relationship, and we’re here to help you do both.
Here’s to love, laughter, and meal times with fewer tears (from everyone).
Ready to get started? Fill out our contact form or schedule your session today. Your future self (and your partner) will thank you!
